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So, you’re single for Valentine’s Day. Don’t worry, you’re not alone. Some of you may be recently single, while others have been single for many Valentine’s days. Still, it’s not hard to get annoyed and bitter with all the constant lovey-dovey shit being shoved in your face.   Valentine’s Day Is the Day for Love Often times, we look at Valentine’s Day as the day of love, smooches, and overpriced chocolates. Bitter dudes like to bitch about how it’s a day for businesses to make money for businesses. Bitter women like to say how they don’t want a day for...

The doldrums of winter may be upon us, but don’t despair as Lupercalia Day approaches…. Say what? Right! We mean “Valentine’s Day,” which replaced Lupercalia Day back in the fifth century, after the Pope decided it was time once and for all to end a mid-February pagan holiday that had been celebrated for centuries. Probably not a bad decision as celebrating Lupercalia involved naked men, dog and goat sacrifices, and whipping young virgin girls with the flayed flesh of the sacrificed to promote fertility. Yeah, today’s traditions of honoring loved ones with gifts of flowers, candy, sex toys, kinky gifts,...

That’s right, we’re talking about the question that most long—term couples end up asking their relationships at some point. This question is a popular one and is asked more often than would you think. Sometimes it’s from couples who have noticed that life gets ahold of them and their sex life is suffering. Perhaps it’s from the couple whose children have just left the home and they’re trying to rekindle the passion they had once before. Everyone has their own reasons for wanting to spice things up in the bedroom. More importantly, we all have different versions of “spice”. I...

Are things in the bedroom a bit lax? Are you running out of ideas to keep the passion aflame? Like many long-term couples, you might have noticed your sex life waxes and wanes much like the moon. Okay, well, if you admit it. It’s easy to say you’re 100% all the time, but actually being it? That’s a different story. Statistically, you’re bound to have a night where someone wants to do it and the other is too tired. Sex can get a little boring when you’re a couple that’s known each other for years. Chances are, you’ve probably explored...

Everybody has their own sex style. Before the 50 Shades era, sex was looked at as a romantic expression of love. Then it was more accepted as a romantic expression of lust once casual sex became accepted. And then. Then there was the 50 Shades of Grey era. Now, I’m not naïve to not have known the BDSM and rough sex were a thing before. It was, but it was more of an underground lifestyle paraded around in movies as a dark thing. But you can’t deny that once the 50 Shades books came out, the peak in rough sex,...